Conforming to Society Standards

[Duchess]

Simply reading the word "conforming" is enough to make me dig in my heels.

I'm a reasonable person & except for my pot smoking habit I follow the laws of the land. I have enough sense to dress in an appropriate manner for whatever the occasion calls for.

The reality is, some people get away with things that others don't, it's just the way it is, of course it's not fair but life isn't fair.

I profile people all the time. I don't like to use the word "judge" but I suppose it's exactly what I do, I will judge you on how you present yourself. So many people don't even hit my radar except for the split second when I visually take them in. If you don't hit my high standards then you are nobody to me and are easily forgotten. I look at how you're dressed, how you talk and how you carry yourself...and I judge you.

Are you upset with me because I said I'm a pretty white girl? I wasn't on my high horse when I said that. It's just a fact of life. I know I'm treated differently sometimes than someone who is homely & uneducated. I don't say that to be hoity toity or full of myself, although I am, somewhat.