10-09-2014, 12:23 AM
(10-09-2014, 12:02 AM)blueberryhill Wrote: However, even if he hasn't done any molesting for the last 40 years, he has changed the lives of his victims forever...
How do you possibly know that? Maybe they moved past it years ago. That assigns a certain mental weakness to people that just bugs the fuck out of me. Many people had rotten, horrible things happen to them when they were young (child abuse and neglect, incest, rape) and they're not fucked up today; they got over it (or "healed" if you want a kinder term).
I was molested as a very young child once and later as a teen I suppose (I was a minor--I slept with a couple of men that weren't). I don't feel like a victim now (and if I ever did, I came to terms with it). Look how well I turned out, dammit.
People don't necessarily carry that type of thing with them like it's a life sentence for chrissake. They move on and come to terms with the fucked up things that happened to them when they were younger. Most healthy people would do that. It's sad when anyone carries baggage like that with them their whole freaking lives. Blurg.
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