08-19-2018, 02:58 AM
(08-19-2018, 01:41 AM)aussiefriend Wrote:(08-16-2018, 10:01 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:(08-16-2018, 06:10 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: Well that's great Clang, I don't need you to go at Superman speed. Yes and I have never judged you about your cross dressing I have always supported that.
Well that's great. Super. Now if you could stop judging my other stuff and trying to change me into someone I'm not, I'd greatly appreciate it. Because if I'm not allowed to be myself at Mock, I might as well leave.
I'm not judging you Clang, I've never judged you. Yes, you gross me out sometimes, but like a brother. I am the least judgmental person you will ever meet in your life. Its horrible when someone has misinterpreted or a miscommunication has come across as something it's not. It doesn't help with someone saying cross dressing is weird.....to them, it's normal to others, it's not my place to ever judge anyone. I'll leave.
You have absolutely judged him. How can you not see that?
Him telling you to back off judging him is because you have been doing that. When you talk about having to reprogram him, THAT is judging. I mean that is the definition of judging him.
You may have some internal justifications that believe your judging him or trying to "fix him" is for his good.....but it isn't. It is just trying to give yourself a pass for behaviour you believe is fundamentally wrong.
Hey I judge him too but I think I have been pretty transparent. I also am happy to agree to disagree. You aren't.
This throwing it out there and then running away from it seems pretty weak.
Look back through my thread on critical thinking. See where you are falling down.