08-16-2011, 10:50 PM
(08-16-2011, 10:41 PM)username Wrote: Wow. Apparently they don't like you very much (or maybe they don't like your husband very much). Fuck them. Go on with the reception as planned and just tell your husband "too bad your family couldn't make it".
You'll probably have more fun without them there anyway.
I know I will have more fun without them, I just feel bad for him not having that support.
I get along fine with his siblings, and I'm fake to his parents. His whole family loves to gossip, so I try to stay away from them if possible. The reason some of them aren't coming is because they can't get along with the other ones. So instead of trying to put their issues aside for one day to support us, they just back out. I'm just tired of always being stuck in the middle. They try to make us choose sides, and they're always gossiping about the other side. It's like high school all over again, but worse. I just thought they could avoid each other for a couple hours at a party. Guess I was wrong!