08-17-2012, 08:22 AM
I can honestly say that even with my great love for shoes, shopping for them would be the LAST thing on my mind if my daughter was missing. Yes people grieve in different ways, maybe she just knew her baby had fallen in that river and was in denial or shock, but very very strange. If I thought that I would have been jumping in that water myself
The only reason people get lost in thought is because it's unfamiliar territory.