01-12-2013, 05:50 PM
I've never had to plan a funeral. My husband and I have different ideas so if we don't come to some compromise, we might not end up spending eternity together.
He wants his ashes spread on the lake where we have our cabin. I'm not so sure I want my ashes spread anywhere (my dad's urn was buried with a headstone) but if I did have my ashes spread, I prefer the Pacific.
Maybe we can meet halfway and have our ashes sprinkled over Bakersfield or something.
Oh, and I'd really prefer NO formal service. If friends/family want to get together over drinks or something, fine but that's it.
He wants his ashes spread on the lake where we have our cabin. I'm not so sure I want my ashes spread anywhere (my dad's urn was buried with a headstone) but if I did have my ashes spread, I prefer the Pacific.
Maybe we can meet halfway and have our ashes sprinkled over Bakersfield or something.
Oh, and I'd really prefer NO formal service. If friends/family want to get together over drinks or something, fine but that's it.