04-03-2013, 04:11 PM
To be serious for a minute, I know he isn't smoking pot. I have asked him before and we have had discussions about it. I wouldn't search his room without him standing there watching me. However, it's MY house and MY rules so if I suspect he is doing drugs I will search wherever the fuck I want. With that being said, if smoking pot was the worst thing he did I might overlook it to an extent. I am more worried about the boys drinking since alcoholism runs in the family. Both my ex and his brother started drinking around age 12 and both are alcoholics. Then there is the mother and father in law and their parents.
Devil Money Stealing Aunt
