11-26-2013, 03:56 AM
I changed my comment a bit while you were quoting me, but I hear what you're saying, maybe. I think. Possibly.
If I understand correctly, whether you raise a child from birth or inherit one who's 18, no difference in how much you'd notice or respond to the situation, from your perspective.
P.s. I don't think I'm in the running for the mad cool aunt award- things are getting real around here. She probably wouldn't think of me as a lame ass bitch, but she knows I don't care who thinks I'm cool or uncool - and she's no exception. I think that's frustrating her a bit. Good! (I know I'm lucky that my biggest challenge is getting her to change the cat box litter and get off the X-box once in a while.)
If I understand correctly, whether you raise a child from birth or inherit one who's 18, no difference in how much you'd notice or respond to the situation, from your perspective.
P.s. I don't think I'm in the running for the mad cool aunt award- things are getting real around here. She probably wouldn't think of me as a lame ass bitch, but she knows I don't care who thinks I'm cool or uncool - and she's no exception. I think that's frustrating her a bit. Good! (I know I'm lucky that my biggest challenge is getting her to change the cat box litter and get off the X-box once in a while.)