ANTI-AGING

[Cynical Ninja]

CN's perspective on women and sex is "unique", in my experience.

---I don't think our difference of opinion is based on conflicting gender views.
I mean, I know plenty of men who don't consider themselves sadistic or their female partners masochistic because they like to get the juices flowing all over each other sometimes.

---I don't think our difference of opinion is based on conflicting UK/US cultural views either.
I mean, I don't get the impression that ESAD is a strictly "paint by numbers" kinda guy when it comes to women. And, I know that my friend Simon (Londoner) is stoked that his wife is really adventurous and a bit freaky.

---How about Australian men, crash?
I'm betting you've exchanged fluids on various body parts with women who aren't sex industry workers and aren't ugly. Did you think they were lacking self respect and that you'd humiliated them in so doing?

IDK. I think maybe CN is just doing it wrong; repressed and predictable. Maybe that's behind all his fantasies about making male Mockers his ass bitch?

And here was me thinking you were a bit different to the others, but no you jump to massive conclusions with little in the way of facts or evidence to back them up.

To sum up I am in no way a prude and have probably done more freaky shit in the past than most people here when I was young, dumb and full of come but then I grew up and became an adult. The fact I have never had an STD is nothing short of a miracle. Have I ever shot my yoghurt cannon on a womans face, tits or ass? Yes. Did the women I did this with have some things in common?, yes they were all dirty, freaky women with emotional issues. Do I think all women who like to be covered in jizz are dirty and freaky with emotional issues? I don't know you tell me?

Fact - sex in porno films is not like sex in real life anybody that thinks or claims it is is deluded, real people do not fuck like porn actors. Would I shoot my jizz over a woman I loved and respected? Not really maybe if she asked me I would because I would want to give her pleasure but if she wanted me to do it all the time I would think to myself “I think she's got unresolved issues with her dad”.

At 40 am I as sexually active as I used to be 20 years ago? No, men hit their sexual peak in their twenties. Any man that's says they are as sexually active as they were 20 years ago is a liar plain and simple.

Maybe I was wrong to say all women find it humiliating and disrespectful but you are equally wrong to say all women like it. I can tell you for fact that there a lot of women out there who think being jizzed on is misogynistic and humiliating and they aren't in any way “wrong” for thinking that way.

Not wanting to spunk on a woman I love and respect does not make me a “prude” or “repressed”.

Maybe next time you are with a man you should trying making love instead of fucking and rutting like a horny rabbit. You might actually be surprised how rewarding it is to share true physical intimacy with a fellow intelligent human being you care about and like as a person. Instead of trying to recreate a scene you saw in a porn film not because you are cool and risque but because making love with your partner doesn't float your boat anymore.

So no, not wanting to jizz over my partner does not make me “unique” in fact most people don't see shit in a porno film and think everybody does that. Quite the opposite if anything.