01-25-2014, 06:54 PM
(01-25-2014, 06:38 PM)username Wrote:(01-25-2014, 05:56 PM)sally Wrote:(01-25-2014, 04:44 PM)Duchess Wrote: Speaking only for myself, I don't view a gentleman opening my door the same way I would view a random stranger calling out a perv on my behalf.
Having a door opened for you is just common courtesy. Having attention drawn to you for no reason other than to make the person doing it self- congratulatory is annoying.
No doubt CN could be congratulating himself but the perv still could have deserved what he got. I congratulate myself when I do something a little above and beyond. The other people chose to sit there. Fine. CN said something so bully for him. I helped this stupid woman in a 55+ year old body and the aptitude of a 10 year old "fix" her cable tv yesterday. Yay for me. It was a PITA and inconvenient as hell but I did it anyway.
Y'all can tell me how wonderful I am now. Waiting....
There is a big difference. Helping a retard fix their cable tv is a selfless act, white knighting on the bus for no other reason than to give yourself a sense of pride is not.