07-21-2014, 11:24 AM
(07-21-2014, 08:31 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: I have seen guys thinking they can impress with their looks and I don't bat an eyelid. You gotta have the goods. Very rare these days. If you find it, it's like striking gold.
Many of the men that I've been most deeply attracted to in my life have not been what others generally consider "hot as hell". A couple have been very hot, but they had a lot more going for them too. None have been painful to the eyes, but in all cases, most of the impressive goods lied beneath the skin -- I'm with you on that.
I'm not arguing with you because we all have different experiences. In mine, there are a lot more men who rely on their personalities and brains to make a good impression than anything else -- it's not rare at all. Then again, I'm not attracted to much younger men and don't find myself in circles with a bunch of superficial people (men or women).
I haven't had any medical procedures to make me appear younger or more attractive. Maybe since I don't rely or focus on my looks to make an impression, others don't sense that looks alone are gonna impress me much. I don't believe that there are a bunch of good looking men out there who have made it their mission to impress me anyway.
IDK -- I think there a lot of good men out there; I see them. I love one and know many others.