09-07-2015, 03:18 AM
Um, ok. I have had the year from hell. So in my stress hell I have been smoking. I don't smoke cheap and nasty cigarettes. It is quite an expensive bad habit over here in Oz. I had these "friends" who I had made this year who were hanging out all the time. No wonder it was an expensive habit for me, I was supplying their cigarettes too. Anyway, I have stopped smoking again. It was just an emergency crutch thing for me, not a lifestyle. Not only did I help these new "friends" with ciggies, but have been rung to get them milk, toilet rolls, clothes, dinners at the club, even gave one girl a laptop. They moved in next door. One girl started fighting with the other. This one girl was leaning on me for support because she was trying to use her for all her ciggies and washing powder and all that home stuff, she played on my sympathy. I was giving her car rides everywhere.
Her new flatmate moved in. She is a nice person, she was nice to me, and then this one that I have been driving everywhere and helping out all of a sudden turns on me and says that I have been talking about her behind her back with her new flatmate. That is a load of bollocks, it's not true. She wouldn't listen. She contrived the whole thing because she doesn't want me be friends with her new circle. The thing is, last week, her flatmate had a friend who was in emergency in hospital who had a bike accident and needed someone to pick him up. She asked me if I would do it, I said yes, she even offered me money, and I said no it was fine.
But my kindness has been returned with evil with this individual. Now all of her friends are acting weird with me. I left a little gift package for her the other day with some chocolates that were handmade from the chocolate shop. They were not cheap they expensive. Her new flatmate said she ate them and didn't share them. So she got the package I gave, but never said thank you or acknowledged any gratitude at all. She has really just turned on me, and turned real nasty. I also had to change the password on the Wi-Fi because she was using up all the GB. So, I think I am well rid of her. But you meet people and think they are kind good people, turns out they are just users. Lesson learned. Not an easy lesson though, feels like the pits.
Her new flatmate moved in. She is a nice person, she was nice to me, and then this one that I have been driving everywhere and helping out all of a sudden turns on me and says that I have been talking about her behind her back with her new flatmate. That is a load of bollocks, it's not true. She wouldn't listen. She contrived the whole thing because she doesn't want me be friends with her new circle. The thing is, last week, her flatmate had a friend who was in emergency in hospital who had a bike accident and needed someone to pick him up. She asked me if I would do it, I said yes, she even offered me money, and I said no it was fine.
But my kindness has been returned with evil with this individual. Now all of her friends are acting weird with me. I left a little gift package for her the other day with some chocolates that were handmade from the chocolate shop. They were not cheap they expensive. Her new flatmate said she ate them and didn't share them. So she got the package I gave, but never said thank you or acknowledged any gratitude at all. She has really just turned on me, and turned real nasty. I also had to change the password on the Wi-Fi because she was using up all the GB. So, I think I am well rid of her. But you meet people and think they are kind good people, turns out they are just users. Lesson learned. Not an easy lesson though, feels like the pits.