09-10-2015, 12:52 AM
(09-09-2015, 06:38 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: I have to agree with that Love Child, if you are fully informed and you go back to the drama, then you are playing a victim and deserve what you get.
The only reason I told my own PITA story is because you asked me. I try to not over explain but at the same time give a full picture. I think there has been a change of heart of their part, but I am like "oh hell no!". Howzat?
I am glad you did! I was a little shocked at first, reading it. I know how easy it can happen. I had a friend who got taken advantage of by someone. This person would slowly move their things into her space and before she knew it she had a house full of stuff that wasn't hers-or the other person's either!
After something like that happens it makes a person really aware. I had something sort of similar but not as extreme, I had to acknowledge that I was lonely at the time and I let someone into my life that was not healthy at all. And it usually does happen when you first move to a place because you are trying to make friends!