hypothetical: calling all evil vagina monsters

[Donovan]

I probably would have considered forgiveness with the conversation that started it in the first place two weeks ago. It looks to me, (and I'm giving my honest opinion here and toning it down a notch) like you brought the conversation up again as a way of starting a breakup process. You're bored and can't get the crazy chick out of your mind. I'll give you credit for not fucking around on the gf/ex gf and having your cake and eating it too.

To your credit this is almost exactly the way the conversation went down at first. Difference being that I've always known what I wanted in a woman and a relationship, from the time I was a kid. I just can't find it. My picker is broken. I also don't know if she kept it chaste with the bouncer boy. But it's irrelevant to the problem at hand.

If you can't figure out by the age you are now what you want in a woman, you need to stay single. I DO feel like you used this woman to make your financial situation better and for that, you're an asshole.

And you're wrong about me hating you, I don't have the time or energy to sit around hating on anyone. You're not even close to being relevant enough for me to waste those kinds of feelings on, and I would hope the feelings mutual. I do think you're an Asshole though...has nothing to do with hate.

I don't hate you either. I value honesty above all else, which is why I put shit on here for people to comment on. My ego isn't so fragile that I'll get the sniffles over people mocking things I've written. But I use you people as a barometer for what a reasonable response ought to be. Doesn't mean I'll change my stance. But I read everything. ESPECIALLY from those who have no reason to try and spare my feelings.