12-16-2023, 12:50 PM
The funny thing is, as we get older, we get smarter, except those who vote for Trump. It goes reverse for them.
But generally speaking we get smarter. We get emotionally smarter, become more mature, better understanding of life and people. Sometimes it can be in the latter part of our lives that we understand our parents and the struggles they endured and went through and what made them behave the way they did. We have a better understanding and therefore are able to forgive them for any mistakes they made.
Sometimes with the advances made in psychology we can understand a mental illness disease process better than they ever could of whilst they were alive.
Even if you look at something like domestic violence and family violence, there is a better understanding of abuse and how to escape that abuse than there was in the past.
It's difficult because, I wish I knew back then what I know now so I could help my parents have better lives and have a closer loving bond with them than I did too. I suppose there are many people who have that experience.
But generally speaking we get smarter. We get emotionally smarter, become more mature, better understanding of life and people. Sometimes it can be in the latter part of our lives that we understand our parents and the struggles they endured and went through and what made them behave the way they did. We have a better understanding and therefore are able to forgive them for any mistakes they made.
Sometimes with the advances made in psychology we can understand a mental illness disease process better than they ever could of whilst they were alive.
Even if you look at something like domestic violence and family violence, there is a better understanding of abuse and how to escape that abuse than there was in the past.
It's difficult because, I wish I knew back then what I know now so I could help my parents have better lives and have a closer loving bond with them than I did too. I suppose there are many people who have that experience.