04-18-2025, 04:45 PM
(04-18-2025, 04:07 PM)username Wrote:(04-18-2025, 03:02 PM)Duchess Wrote:(04-18-2025, 01:14 AM)username Wrote: “…so what’s a eulogy?”.
Did you laugh or kindly explain or both?
You have a good attitude about all of this.
I both laughed and wanted to shank a bitch both. And I briefly explained a eulogy (memories, a little biography interjected with some humor). Geez…
She’s killing me. I woke up to a text from her this morning in the sibling group text and she’s all butt hurt (over nothing) and being passive aggressive/snarky. I have zero patience for her bullshit in the moment so I’m just ignoring her (because…the nicest thing I can do to honor my mom is not to stomp the life out of my sister). But dang…she’s pushing it.
Even though my mom owns a big 5 bedroom house, I decided to get an Airbnb nearby for me and mine for the weekend of the service. My sister is bringing her ex-husband, his elderly dog, her 25 y/o son and her stupid cat to my mom’s. And she was dictating where people would sleep. Ultimately I kindly told her that 7 adults in the house would be a little too stressful during an emotional time so she could have the house and I had rented a place.
Her response? “Well, I don’t think mom would want us spread out but of course you should do what makes you happy”.
Do you think her ex-husband and his elderly dog really want to be there?