Are you a good parent?

[ramseycat]

The way I see it is the love you feel for your own children is indescribable, and unless your parents were total dirt bags, they feel the same about you. So even though they're an old pain in the ass, you owe it to them to give that love back. You wouldn't put your kid in a nursing home, why would you do it to the person that loves you more than anything in the world.

Because it would feel weird to have to wipe and clean the crack of Dads ass?

Nurses will come in to do it. My grandma was fairly wealthy and her insurance still paid for a nurse to come in twice a day. When she got really sick hospice was there.

So when she had a BM you let her sit in her own feces until the nurse got there to clean her up? Nice.

My mom does not want to move to GA. She does not want to move to MI by my sister. Going to the NH for a few weeks and then into assisted living is what's best for her. She is going into AL anyway and she is ok with that. But it's her decision on where she wants to live for now, so at home is where she is.