Are you a good parent?

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That's a tough one Adub

No its not. Thank God Adub never resorted to a smelly old peoples home. Just think of the nightmares.

Sometimes the smelly old people's home is the only way to go, dumbass.

If you can, hospice is probably the better way to go but if your loved one is just completely disabled without a firm prognosis, a NH is probably the right/best place for them.