05-31-2020, 01:41 PM
(05-31-2020, 01:35 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: Yeh but this guy is high profile and what if he thinks I am after him because of who he is. We have mutual friends. What if he thinks Im a desperado and am after him for the wrong reason. I mean, I like him because he reminds me of me. I think I have humiliated myself and may have to go into hiding.
I kept saying out loud "I am so stupid" I mean I put myself out there. MY daughter wanted to know what I had done but was too ashamed to tell her.
Will this feeling of shame pass? I don't care about money or fame, or status, I care about true love and if I cant have it I would rather be alone.
Please help. Desperate.
It's okay to ask a guy for coffee, Aussie and I don't view it as an act of desperation. If you're interested in someone I don't see anything improper with letting the person know you'd like to get to know him better. I don't see taking the initiative as being a bad thing. I'm not someone who believes in being coy, how the hell else are you supposed to get what you want unless you make it clear.