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Not gonna argue, I've been a fool before and probably will be again. It's the nature of wanting just one thing so bad you can practically taste it and having it seemingly forever out of reach. Makes a person make reckless choices.
I'm not making excuses for her or minimizing her hard life, it was no picnic for her for years with all those pricks. But she learned how to be ugly, and that's what she became. Thought maybe that wasn't the case. But it was.
Meanwhile, enjoy your lengthy committed relationship and the version of love you've made for yourselves. Sure as fuck ain't as easy as it looks.
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When you're made for each other I think you know it no matter how much you hate each other. You either have it or you don't. I guess. I don't know. I can't explain it, but I think only certain people find that in life. On the first try anyway.
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Don't sell yourself short. Longevity take work and commitment, no matter how well-suited you are to each other. Me, on the other hand, I am apparently the windows 10 of interpersonal relationships ![Smiley_emoticons_wink Smiley_emoticons_wink](https://mockforums.net/images/smilies/greensmilies/smiley_emoticons_wink.gif) .
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I think it sucks ass that it's more important to her to take pot shots at you rather than love that little boy more and allow him to see someone was has been significant in his short life. It's selfish and shows no consideration for his feelings.
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Yeah well, hell hath no fury...I am unparalleled in inspiring feminine rage. Since the day I was shat into this misbegotten world lol
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I guess I've never been so pissed that I would hurt a little kid in order to have the satisfaction of stickin' it to the person who made me mad. God knows I can be a juvenile twat but her kinda bs takes the cake.
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It does hurt. But he's gonna get bigger. I've had three major committed relationships with three entirely different personality types of women, and every damn one sooner or later used the kids as a weapon against me. Partly because I tend to bond very closely with kids in general, and partly because when a woman gets angry with me she finds it very difficult to get past my defenses and make me angry in return. The only real way to stick it to me is to use the kids, and they know it. And eventually, they all do it. Doesn't do wonders for my already overwhelming trust issues.
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I still have windows 7 not 10 and it's working fine.
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I am in the process of moving data from an old phone to a new phone. It is really annoying.
Next time i will just go to the store and have them do it.
Also annoying is that I got my new phone on an insurance claim-which I still had to pay $50 deductible, no big deal. But then at one point in my many phone calls trying to get my new phone activated one person told me it would be $20. Don't think so dude. So I called again and got someone else and stated up front about the insurance.
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Yeah, phones are not on the list of my few favorite things lately.
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Android works better here.
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I hate that I even have to have a phone. I'm not someone who enjoys chatting. Someone kept me on the phone for 90 minutes the other day and now I don't want to take another call from that person.
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I would be exhausted from that and dread another session.
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My phone was hot!
While I don't like chatting on the phone, I LOVE text messaging, it's short & sweet and that I can live with.
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(04-26-2022, 03:57 AM)Duchess Wrote: I hate that I even have to have a phone. I'm not someone who enjoys chatting. Someone kept me on the phone for 90 minutes the other day and now I don't want to take another call from that person.
I'm the same way. I prefer text to chatting on the phone. Even worse was the video calls from an ex-friend. I hate getting calls from my brother Ed. He sometimes keeps me on the phone for hours talking about nothing. I dont need to know about all the "cool" things you got at street soldiers.
I'll regret not talking to him more though if he should die before me.
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I hate text messaging.
I'm getting better at it, but for longer involved detailed things I would rather just talk it out and be done with it. Texting some things out seems like too much!!
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Talking is easy. You have back and forth conversation and you don't have to wait for a response.Texting is OK when you have to say "I'm in front of your house...lets go!"
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(04-26-2022, 07:23 PM)Maggot Wrote: Talking is easy. You have back and forth conversation and you don't have to wait for a response.Texting is OK when you have to say "I'm in front of your house...lets go!"
Talking is too easy. I tend to overshare when I talk in person. Especially when I'm nervous about what to say. Texting gives me more time to control the message and think about what I want to say/share.
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