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(07-25-2025, 11:25 PM)sally Wrote: (07-25-2025, 04:14 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: i'm going to bed now. I will be back in when I wake up. It feels great to be getting back in control of my life.
Did you finally get the herpes under control?
My b/f in high school got herpes from a “player” that she dated for a few months. At the time (science and medicine have probably come a long way since then), it freaked me out/made me very sad for her. All I remember was thinking it was a life sentence and she’d have to tell any future guys she dated “I have herpes so if it’s flaring up, I can’t have sex”. Awkward at best if you’re around 17 with your whole life in front of u.
Hopefully, it’s not as big of a deal as it seemed back then.
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Sally is fuckin' with Aussie and she'll be spittin' nails when she sees that. 
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(07-25-2025, 11:25 PM)sally Wrote: (07-25-2025, 04:14 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: i'm going to bed now. I will be back in when I wake up. It feels great to be getting back in control of my life.
Did you finally get the herpes under control?
you have to be sexually active to be at risk of such an affliction. The only thing I am at risk of having, is cobwebs. Not fun.
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(07-26-2025, 07:23 PM)username Wrote: (07-25-2025, 11:25 PM)sally Wrote: (07-25-2025, 04:14 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: i'm going to bed now. I will be back in when I wake up. It feels great to be getting back in control of my life.
Did you finally get the herpes under control?
My b/f in high school got herpes from a “player” that she dated for a few months. At the time (science and medicine have probably come a long way since then), it freaked me out/made me very sad for her. All I remember was thinking it was a life sentence and she’d have to tell any future guys she dated “I have herpes so if it’s flaring up, I can’t have sex”. Awkward at best if you’re around 17 with your whole life in front of u.
Hopefully, it’s not as big of a deal as it seemed back then. Mate, I can't even attract a player! The only thing I am attracting these days is desperados. God's honest truth.
I am as fucked up as ever, I can't attract anyone normal.
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You don’t need to attract anyone, Aussie. Stop going through 100 frogs in hope to find a prince. You might really catch a touch of the old herpes.
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Same. The few times I've tried dating all I've attracted are crazy chicks. Like the uber Christian girl in college that modelled her bathing suits while wearing panties underneath but was okay with French kissing and moaned while I massaged her butt bone over clothes. And then it turned out she was using me and actually fancied my older brother John. And fucking Ginny Brooks.....I think if i didn't have that car accident while on a date with her she was going to trick me into believing some other dude's baby was mine.
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Same. The few times I've tried dating all I've attracted are crazy chicks. Like the uber Christian girl in college that modelled her bathing suits while wearing panties underneath but was okay with French kissing and moaned while I massaged her butt bone over clothes. And then it turned out she was using me and actually fancied my older brother John. And fucking Ginny Brooks.....I think if i didn't have that car accident while on a date with her she was going to trick me into believing some other dude's baby was mine.
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Yeah, thanks for telling us that twice, Clang. The first time wasn’t enough because all those quotes distracted us.
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(08-01-2025, 01:21 AM)sally Wrote: Yeah, thanks for telling us that twice, Clang. The first time wasn’t enough because all those quotes distracted us.
Yeah sorry about messing up the multi quote and double posting. I'll stick to single quotes from now on. 
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(07-31-2025, 11:54 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: you have to be sexually active to be at risk of such an affliction. The only thing I am at risk of having, is cobwebs. Not fun.
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Clangy, I remember Ginny and I feel certain you can do so much better than that.
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Just put the lime in the coconut already, cheeses rice!
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(08-01-2025, 08:22 AM)BigMark Wrote: Just put the lime in the coconut already, cheeses rice!
More like gherkin in the Grand Canyon.
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(08-01-2025, 01:05 AM)sally Wrote: You don’t need to attract anyone, Aussie. Stop going through 100 frogs in hope to find a prince. You might really catch a touch of the old herpes.
I'm not trying to attract anyone. I am unwittingly attracting desperados. It's horrible. I'm not interested.
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(08-01-2025, 06:49 AM)Duchess Wrote: (07-31-2025, 11:54 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: you have to be sexually active to be at risk of such an affliction. The only thing I am at risk of having, is cobwebs. Not fun.
Still stands.
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Duch, do you have guys interested that you would take off like the road runner if they even dared to aspire to your level?
That's the only sort of action I am getting these days. This guy keeps turning up to things he knows I am at. And it's like, bud, not in a million years.
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(Today, 08:02 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: Duch, do you have guys interested that you would take off like the road runner if they even dared to aspire to your level?
That's the only sort of action I am getting these days. This guy keeps turning up to things he knows I am at. And it's like, bud, not in a million years.
It doesn't happen as much as it used to, but yeah. On one hand I'm flattered, but I'm skeeved too. Now I'm thinking about the guy behind the deli counter. It nearly went over my head! Ahahahaha. Sweet kid, but I'm probably older than his mama and I'm not going there, not ever. *cringe*
Aussie, it's not cool at all when a guy continues to show up at places he knows you'll be at especially when he knows how you feel. That's not normal behavior and you should make people in your life aware of what he's doing. It concerns me.
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It's that male gaze, even if it's from a distance, I am onto it. This guy is old. No no no no. Yeh it's a bit weird and cringe type awkward situation. I go out of my way to avoid him.
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